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How to Build Confidence as a Writer

How to Build Your Confidence as a Writer

As a writer, confidence is one of the most important traits you can have. Confidence gives writers the ability to feel safe in telling their stories, to trust in their skills and knowledge, and to speak about their writing with the world in order to promote their books.

While some people seem to be born with plenty of confidence, others take some time to develop the self-assurance they need to share their creativity with the world. Regardless of where you fall on this scale, confidence is something you can begin building now.

Here are 7 ways you can build your confidence as a writer:

  1. Self-Hypnosis for Confidence – Hypnosis can reprogram your mind for confidence by retraining the way you speak to and about yourself, by releasing limiting beliefs, and by increasing positive expectations.
  1. Affirmations – Similar to how confidence can be instilled through hypnosis, affirmations retrain your self-talk, keep you focused on your desired outcomes, and they keep you aware of your thoughts so you can see when doubt and fear are speaking louder than confidence and self-assurance. 
  1. Reevaluate your idea of what constitutes good writing – Many people believe that because they do not have impeccable grammar or spelling, they cannot be good writers. Fortunately, grammar and spelling can easily be changed, corrected, and improved. What is most important it your ability to tell a compelling story and share your unique message.
  1. Share your writing with others – One of the most effective ways to improve your writing is to get feedback on it. In order to get feedback, you have to be willing to share your writing with others. If you keep it locked away in your google docs without anyone else ever laying eyes on it, you are denying yourself positive feedback and praise as well as constructive criticism that will help you become a better writer.
  1. Develop your intuition – If you want to trust yourself more, which is confidence at its core, developing your intuition is a must. When you strengthen this inner knowing, you learn to rely on your instincts as a writer more than research or outside opinions. This builds confidence in your writing and your message that is more solid because it comes from within.
  1. Work with a writing coach – While developing your intuition builds confidence in your writing from within, working with a writing coach will help you learn the skills you may not have on your own. Will they sit down and teach you proper grammar and spelling? No, they are no elementary school teachers. But they will teach you how to structure your story, how to make your writing more compelling, and how to make it as clear as possible for your readers. 
  1. Get yourself published! This may seem like an obvious one. You may be thinking, “don’t you need the confidence so you CAN get published?” and the answer is yes. BUT there are many smaller ways you can get published on your way to publishing your book that will give you a huge confidence boost and some added credibility as a writer. Apply to be a guest blogger with a much larger platform. Submit articles to a publication in your niche. Participate in a collaborative book. When I became published as a contributing author in a collaborative book, it gave me a huge boost in confidence as a writer and in motivation to complete my own book. Now, I’m working on publishing my own collaborative book on the bridge between creativity and spirituality. If you’d like to be a featured author, click here to learn more and apply.

When you build your confidence as a writer, you will finally allow your writing to improve and your career as an author to begin. Confidence allows you to embrace opportunities that arise with enthusiasm and courage. You may even begin to create your own opportunities. 

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5 Ways Hypnosis Can Enhance Your Writing

In 2018, when I first began studying hypnosis, I realized quickly that I had already been using hypnosis in a number of ways without realizing it: in my favorite mindfulness technique, how I relaxed my mind before going to bed, and most surprisingly, to help with my writing process. 

While this was several years before I called myself a writer, writing was a significant part of my life. I wrote daily in my job in real estate marketing and social media. It was the center of my work with new play development and dramaturgy. It was a huge – and my favorite – part of grad school. And I was a lifelong journaller to boot. 

With each of these, I knew I had to be in the right mindset to do my best writing and had specific routines for different writing assignments. I simply never recognized these routines for what they were – hypnosis!

Now that I am aware of this distinction, I can intentionally use hypnosis to enhance my writing and my creative process in a number of ways.

Here are my top five uses of hypnosis for writing.

#1 – Hypnosis can help you reduce overthinking and overanalyzing while writing

When it comes to writing, particularly non-fiction writing, many people rely most heavily on their conscious mind to get it done. After all, it is the “doing” part of our mind so it’s natural to give this job to our conscious, logical mind. 

However, creativity and self-expression come from our subconscious mind. That’s why when we use our conscious mind to do our writing, we can get caught up in overthinking, constantly editing our thoughts and ideas, and making the process unnecessarily long and painful. It’s because we’re using the wrong part of our mind.

When we allow our subconscious mind to run the show in our writing process, our ideas and words flow, we trust ourselves more, and our writing becomes faster and easier. In hypnosis, our conscious, logical mind goes to the background and our subconscious mind comes forward and does its magic, which reduces overthinking and increases natural creativity.

Additionally, hypnosis is, by definition, a state of relaxation. When you bring yourself into a slightly hypnotic state when you are writing, your mind relaxes and your inner critic quiets down, allowing you to write without questioning yourself so you can write now and edit later.

#2 – Hypnosis brings you into a flow state

When you are in hypnosis, which is a state of lowered conscious mind activity, you enter a flow state. In this state, you are hyper-focused on the task at hand and free from outside distractions and mental noise. 

Bringing myself into a flow state for writing is a routine I began in grad school, without realizing it was self-hypnosis. Whenever I’d have a paper to write, once my research and outlines were done, I’d sit on my couch, press “play” on Gone with the Wind, and before I knew it, my first draft would be written. I don’t particularly like Gone with the Wind, so this routine never made much sense to me. I just knew it worked.

It wasn’t until I began learning about hypnosis that I understood why this worked. In the 7+ minutes of opening credits, the music relaxed me into a hypnotic flow state, so before the movie even began, I was intensely focused on my writing. Furthermore, as the music fades in and out throughout the movie, it renews this state of flow so I could hold my concentration for hours. 

Learning to bring yourself into this state through self-hypnosis can transform your writing sessions and maximize your time and effort. And it’s easier to do than you realize. All it takes is a little practice. In fact, I do it almost every time I write, including right now, in only a matter of seconds.

To learn how to activate a flow state through self-hypnosis, join me for this training on June 7th! 

#3 – Hypnosis can help you break through writer’s block

While I’m not a huge fan of the term “writer’s block” because it presents itself in so many different ways, at different parts of the writing journey, for very different reasons, it is well-documented that hypnosis is a powerful too for overcoming writer’s block in many of its forms.

Writer’s block can be caused by overthinking and trying to hard. It can be caused by fear and doubt. It can be caused by subconscious blocks you don’t even know you have. It can look like procrastination. It can feel like a total loss for words or ideas. It can even manifest itself by getting sick or extremely busy. Just to name a few!

The amazing news is that hypnosis can help with all of these, since it helps you reprogram your subconscious habits, beliefs, and feelings, which are often the root of these issues. 

#4 – Hypnosis can build your confidence

Confidence is a quality most of us could use more of, especially writers. As a writer, you may (or may not) be confident in your writing ability. When you are, you trust your ideas, resist the urge to second guess yourself, and write faster as a result. But confidence for writers goes beyond the act of writing itself.

We are in a time where regardless of what publishing route you choose – traditional, self-publishing, or hybrid – you will be the primary drive of your marketing, promotion, and book sales. Building your confidence in being seen, public speaking, sharing your message, and so much more will increase your ability to sell your book to readers, agents, and publishers.

An added note: building confidence as a writer often goes hand in hand with releasing writer’s block. Our minds are like vacuums. When you release an unwanted feeling, belief, or habit, something will rush in to take its place. Being intentional about calling in positive feelings, beliefs, and habits like confidence, self-trust, and motivation to fill this void is crucial. If you only work on letting go of the negative without intentionally replacing it with a positive, another negative can fill its place. 

#5 – Hypnosis can help you gain clarity on what you are writing

Last, but certainly not lease, hypnosis can help you gain clarity and find solutions within your message, your ideas, and how to present them in your writing. Again, this is an area where it is tempting to rely on your conscious mind. 

We’re often taught to think through our solutions and options. However, when we let our logical mind team up with our powerful subconscious mind, we often find the best solution in the most unexpected places. 

When you learn to use hypnosis to connect with your intuition, higher self, and spirit guides, you connect with a deeper universal intelligence that knows exactly when and how to share your message and tell your story. Asking for writing guidance from these sources of inner and spiritual wisdom can reveal information you’ve forgotten. It can make your writing come across more clearly, it can show you possibilities you hadn’t considered before. 

It also makes your writing authentic and aligned with your purpose. After all, when you rely on outside sources and research for your writing, anyone can access the same information. Only YOU can connect with your own inner wisdom to share what your soul knows to be true. Leaving this personal knowledge out is denying your readers the essence of your writing. 

To learn more about connecting with spirit for your writing, check out my free pdf on 6 Steps to Spirit Guided Writing

Hypnosis can assist and enhance your writing and creativity in countless ways, so this is just the tip of the iceberg! 

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6 Steps to Spirit Guided Writing

Spirit Guided Writing is a unique method of connecting with your higher self, spirit guides, and the Universe to improve your creative process from start to finish. As a spiritual seeker, you may have heard of channeled, intuitive, or automatic writing as a means of connecting with the divine for personal growth.

While Spirit Guided Writing incorporates these techniques, its focus is on your creative journey, from receiving inspiration, through the writing itself, all the way to sharing your message with the world. With your spirit team advising your project, your writing becomes more authentic, fulfilling, and aligned with your purpose.

Spirit Guided Writing builds trust and confidence in your writing, which makes the creative process faster, easier, and more enjoyable. The best part about it is that anyone can learn it by following these six steps.

Watch this quick video for the 6 Steps to Spirit Guided Writing:

To learn more about Spirit Guided Writing, download the guide here.